Jackie Joyner-Kersee is one of the greatest female athletes to grace the planet.
Need proof?
Her Olympic record alone sets a standard that others have been trying to match for the past 20 years: three gold medals, one silver medal and two bronze medals across four Olympic Games (1984, 1988, 1992 and 1996) and a heptathlon score of 7,291 points in Seoul that has yet to be matched.
She was also a four-time gold medalist at the World Championships and a star basketball player at UCLA.
In this conversation, Joyner-Kersee talks extensively about how self-discipline, rooted in her deeply held Christian faith, served as the foundations for elite competitive success,
Bonham: It takes a lot of self-discipline to be an elite athlete, but who modeled that concept for you when you were growing up in East Saint Louis?
Jackie Joyner-Kersee: It was my mom.
My family modeled it, but my mom was a strong believer in being a
disciplinarian. She would tell me that in order for me to do anything, there
were certain things I had to accomplish first. If I wanted to go to the
community center or if I wanted to go to the track, first I had to make sure my
homework was done. Then I had to make sure my room was cleaned up. If
everything was right in her eyes, then I was able to go play.
I saw my mom
work hard day in and day out. She got up early in the morning to get ready for
work, catch the bus and make sure she got to her job on time. She always told
us she’d be home at 3:30 and she was always home at 3:30. She made sure there
was food on the table so we could eat. That was a living example of example and
doing the small things.
Bonham: How did you see discipline play out in
your youth and throughout your athletic career?
Joyner-Kersee: As a student,
discipline helped me get to school on time. School started at 8 o’clock, but I
would get there at 7:30. That discipline overlapped into what I was doing
athletically. If you have an event scheduled for a certain time and you’re a
minute late, then you are disqualified. If I was working a job and I was
supposed to be there at 9 o’clock, I wouldn’t just show up at nine. I’d get
there before nine. All of this has helped me understand the importance of
discipline.
Discipline is
also about respecting other people’s time. My mom was a strong believer in
that. My coaches would usually pick me up and she didn’t want them waiting for
me. If they were going to be there at a certain time, it was not their
responsibility to come to my door to see if I was ready. No, I was supposed to
be ready to go before they got there. That’s showing respect for them.
Discipline has played a major role across the board in my life.
Bonham: What did you have to do in order stay
disciplined as an Olympic caliber athlete?
Joyner-Kersee: I had a routine
every day. I was at the track at 7:30 in the morning doing my warm ups before
(coach and now husband) Bobby (Kersee) would get there. One of the things that Bobby would request of us is that
we do our warm ups so that when he showed up, we would be ready to go. That
helped me get prepared for competitions where you have to be warmed up and
ready to go before the race. I had to train for seven to eight hours a day. It
was tough to do, but I had to discipline myself to go through that because it
was the same thing I would have to do when I competed. It’s like going
to school. You read, you study and then you have the exam.
Sunday was
always our spiritual day. We didn’t train on Sundays. I always made sure I was
going to church and that those things were a part of my lifestyle.
Bonham: What are the benefits of discipline?
Joyner-Kersee: Time management
is one of the great benefits of discipline. It helped me a lot when I got to
college. That’s where you really need time management. I had to get to class on
time and schedule my day. That was crucial.
Bonham: How did you make sure you stayed disciplined?
Joyner-Kersee: It’s a mindset.
It has a lot to do with goal setting. Goals were and still are a part of my
life. When you have goals, you know that there are certain things you can and
cannot do. That’s where the discipline comes in. I knew that a lifestyle of
partying and going out wasn’t something I didn’t want to do. I knew it would
distract me and get me off the course of what I wanted to do.
Bonham: What were some challenges you faced as an athlete?
Joyner-Kersee: With me being
an asthmatic, my discipline was really tested. I always had to make sure I took
my medicine on a regular basis. I had to respect the disease. I couldn’t live
in denial. I was considered to be this great athlete and I didn’t want to
believe that I had asthma. But there were times I was extremely sick and I
wouldn’t take my medicine so I had to discipline myself to take my medicine and
do the things I had to do to keep my asthma under control.
Discipline
became a big part of my survival. You know that you’re a world class athlete
but then you get out on the track and can’t even run a mile or even a lap. Then
you start questioning. You start doubting. Talk about having faith. Then I
realized I had to start treating asthma the way I treated my training. Asthma
became one of my opponents. I’m trying to beat it and these are the things I
have to do on a daily basis. I look at my pulmonologist as my friend and not my
enemy. I started using him as a coach. He and the nurses were trying to help
me. That was the mindset. Then I started keeping a journal. I would write down
the days I was feeling great. If they’d just cut the grass at the track, that
was a red flag. I knew that would be a problem. If I had a bad day, I’d write
it down and begin to question why I had a bad day.
I did a lot of
visualization. This is easy to say and difficult to do. You have to weed out
toxic people in your life. They might be the coolest person. They might be your
best friend. But emotionally, if you’re on a roller coaster all the time, it’s
not really a good situation. That’s tough but that’s where the discipline comes
in and you start realizing that you’ve got to figure out a way to get out of
that relationship. You have to
learn how to say no and sometimes that’s saying no to the people closest to
you.
I always try to
focus my energy on the things I have control over because if you succumb to the
things you have no control over, it zaps your energy and you lose your focus.
I’m not trying to control anyone, but it’s making sure I’m controlling my own
destiny.
Bonham: What role has spiritual discipline played in your life?
Joyner-Kersee: I am a firm
believer in faith and the discipline to believe that I could travel to
California and go to UCLA and go on to make Olympic teams. It took discipline
to hold strong and believe in myself and for others to believe in me. That was
a test. It took discipline to separate myself from negativity and not to let
the drug-infested community suck me in. That took a lot of discipline for a
girl growing up in East St. Louis where there was (population) people and to go
onto a place where millions lived and to go out there and know that I was going
with a dream in mind. It took discipline to not fall victim to the things that
might pull me away from that dream.
Bonham: How can leaders be more disciplined?
Joyner-Kersee: When I was
younger, I told myself all I wanted to do was to improve a tenth of a second or
a half of an inch if I was running or jumping. If I made a C, how could I take
that C and turn it into a B. The steps are realistic goals and small steps to
get there. In some cases, you might go leaps and bounds, but I think it’s so
important to take the small steps and appreciate those small steps while you’re
struggling so that when things start to get a little easier for you, you won’t
forget the discipline it took for you to get there.
Bonham: How has the Bible inspired you to a life
of discipline?
Joyner-Kersee: In sports and
throughout my life, there have been so many challenges. You think about the
patience of Job. I lost my mom when I was a freshman in college. I dealt with
being an asthmatic. I had the dream of going to the Olympics. People would tell
me I had to be patient. I had to wait. Not that I can compare myself to Job,
but there’s the understanding of that kind of patience and discipline. At
nighttime when I went to bed, I wouldn’t pray for patience because I realized I
was already living through it. I was being taught to be patient. When the
opportunity presented itself, I would be ready. I was thankful for the things I
had gone through so that one day I could share with others and help them.
Bonham: How does the concept of purpose fit into your outlook on life?
Joyner-Kersee: I truly believe
that God gives us things that we can handle. If we don’t handle things
properly, it will be slowly taken away. I don’t know quite yet what my purpose
is, but I know that God is using me as a tool in the way He thinks I should be
used, not what I think my purpose is. That purpose is still being defined. So
that’s why I live each day with the understanding, I don’t know what tomorrow
is going to bring. Mom would always say, "Jackie, don’t tell me about tomorrow.
Take care of today."
Taking care of
today means staying disciplined. If you’re worried about tomorrow, you’ll get
off track from the purpose that God has before you. That’s where the mental and
emotional discipline comes into place. I’m not going to let one over take the
other. You have to
understand that you have a purpose and you can’t take your existence for
granted.
Bonham: How has your faith helped you deal with tragedy in your life such as losing your mother and your sister-in-law and fellow Olympic champion Florence Griffith-Joyner?
Joyner-Kersee: That’s where
your faith comes in and your belief in God and not losing sight of what my mom
would have wanted for me or even Florence. We have to be strong for one
another. Even in dealing with the loss of a mother or a sister-in-law, having a
brother, having sisters, there’s strength. It’s so important because when I’m
strong, I’m giving them strength too. We all feed off one another.
Check out Chad
Bonham’s book Glory of the Games featuring Olympic athletes such as Shannon
Miller, Dave Johnson, Josh Davis, Tamika Catchings, Ruth Riley, Michael Chang,
and Tobin Heath.
Lead photo courtesy of Erik van Leeuwen.
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